Saint Mal

I am a Dominatrix for the over-thinkers, the slaves of the mind seeking freedom. For those who can sense a world of infinitely blooming sensation just out of reach, for those who crave a strength of presence amidst their own helplessness, for those who want to experience devastatingly heart-opening sensuality and sadism— I am for you.

I attract those who seek deeper veins of personal truth within their own submission.

Sessions with Me are incisive, energetic, primal, and deliberate— they are a state of expansion. My nurturing and focused presence inspires the endurance to shatter limitations. I bring an intimate, sadistic, and grounded energy to My sessions that inspires enduring connection.

I draw from over 10 years as a kinkster in private and the larger San Diego community. Though many would say I am disarming and friendly, I am a naturally very intense person, and immerse myself in my passions to the fullest. I live this life 24/7 and I would have it no other way.

I draw from my background as a cognitive scientist, Clinical Herbalist, and Holistic Health Practitioner to inform my deeper curiosities about my clients. I pride myself ability to hold space for clients in a nurturing and professional manner.

My Dominance is informed by my personal spiritual practices, the natural world, the art of Toshio Saeki, and Anne Rice novels.

While I offer a variety of erotic BDSM experiences, bondage is my love. Lucky for you, I have spent years cultivating a very enticing skillset— I offer Japanese rope bondage (popularly known as ‘shibari’) sessions, ranging from connected and sensual floor-based tying, to strict full-body control and immobilization.

I have dedicated years of training to understand the nuances of partial and full-suspension tying, sadistic and sensual tying styles, as well as creatively torturous predicaments.

I have a luxurious and cozy private session studio with a fully functioning mechanical hoist, wooden post, plenty of suspension points, and cement bondage wall for us to explore our fantasies together.